I got back from my trip to Indiana about an hour ago. BFF's mom is "actively passing," as they put it in the health center, but she may hang on for a week or even two. The first time I went to see her, she was very uncomfortable and struggling in her bed. They have since shortened the interval between morphine doses and she is now much more peaceful. But she does not connect with anyone, she is in her own zone.
BFF is all over the place emotionally, which is not surprising.
When we weren't at the health center, we were cleaning and straightening the house in anticipation of overnight guests. We did go out for dinner last night, which she covered.
Her brother will arrive today and I hope he can help her through some of her mood swings and anxieties.
I will go back for the funeral, when it comes. I think she will have ample help from family until then.
It was a pretty low-spend trip. I had enough gas in the car to get there and back. I spent $14 on road food.
I'm exhausted!
Oh yes -- another expense. My tollway pass refreshed -- $40.
Exhausted
August 5th, 2018 at 09:45 pm
August 6th, 2018 at 12:26 am 1533515187
August 6th, 2018 at 12:46 am 1533516362
August 6th, 2018 at 12:07 pm 1533557238