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Beside Myself

March 26th, 2020 at 12:07 pm

Last night I learned that my Oregon son and his whole family are sick, with symptoms in line with COVID-19. He is very sick, with high fever and shortness of breath. They went to an ER but were sent home to recover. They were not tested because rural Oregon does not have any test kits.

I'm worried because of how sick my son is, and also because my DIL is dealing with low immunity already, due to a series of surgeries she had before they moved to Oregon. Factor in all the stress they had of being laid off, moving across the country, buying and selling a house -- well, it's no wonder they are sick.

I keep repeating to myself that 80% of cases self-resolve. They are young. But I'm so worried because they are alone out there without any support system. I can't do anything, and I am beside myself.

I talked to my other son last night, and we decided between the two of us that I should continue to stay at home when at all possible, so I am not going grocery shopping today. I still have enough supplies. I can go when I am out of something I truly need. I did walk to Walgreens yesterday (before this conversation) to buy some Tylenol, because that's a real need. I tried to keep six feet away from everyone, but didn't always accomplish it.

I investigated Instacart and signed up, but when I started entering items on my list, the cost climbed quickly, and I thought it was just crazy expensive. So I emptied the cart. I will consider using it for one-off items that I really need, but not for a whole grocery order. Of course toilet paper was the one thing not available. It really burns me that there never was a shortage, and that people are hoarding it when others, who didn't run out and buy everything off the shelves, are really needing it. That said, I have been careful and I do have 7 rolls left.

Today I'm going to drive to the Kia dealer and get my radiator cap, because not having one could lead to a breakdown down the road. I called yesterday to make sure they are open and then asked if they could bring it out to the car, so I wouldn't have to go in, and they agreed. I don't remember if I ever discussed this, but just before I went into self-quarantine, I got my oil changed at Kia, and they told me my radiator cap was missing. Because I had had my car serviced there in December, they felt they were in error and ordered the cap for me free of charge. (I have since recalled that I was serviced at Midas also, but that was for tire and brakes, so they probably did not remove my radiator cap.) Anyway, while I was in quarantine Kia called to say the cap was in, and I asked them to hold onto it for a week. Now I'm going to get it, so I won't have to worry about car trouble. Not that I'm driving much! Since I am down to a quarter tank, I will fill up, too. And then hurry home.

I borrowed an ebook using the Libby app yesterday. I'm still reading another book, but I have 14 days on my checkout.

I was glad to hear that the bailout passed, more for the sake of my kids than for me. They will each get $3,000; I will get $1,200, which I will put into savings, but I may use it to help out DIL's business, if it is needed. Since I am impacted very little, financially, by the virus, I think this is the right thing to do.

18 Responses to “Beside Myself”

  1. Wink Says:
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    I'm so sorry CB. Sending prayers to your Oregon family and to you. It's such a difficult time.

  2. Butterscotch Says:
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    Prayers for your son and his family. I can only imagine how helpless you feel. Yes, keep assuring yourself that most people do recover - keep those positive thoughts in mind!

  3. Carol Says:
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    I'm sorry, too. Our kids may be grown, but they are still our kids. Hope they all have a speedy recovery and, yes, cb, you stay in as much as you can, too. Healing thoughts coming your way!

  4. Lots of Ideas Says:
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    CB, can your son or DIL not shop for you?
    And then leave the package for you?
    You do so much for them, this seems like something they can do for you.

  5. GratefulSaver Says:
    1585233856

    My heart aches for you. I will pray for your son and his family and you as well. ((HUGS))

  6. LifeBalance Says:
    1585235153

    Prayers for your son and his family.

  7. alliecat79 Says:
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    CB, that is so stressful. Hugs and love to you and your family!!!

  8. CB in the City Says:
    1585240051

    LOI, they would if I asked them to, but they are super worried about bringing the virus home, and I don't blame them. I want all of us to stay in as much as possible.

  9. GoodLiving Says:
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    Best wishes to your family in Oregon. May they all heal well and quickly.

  10. rob62521 Says:
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    Hope you got the radiator cap and gas tank filled and could get home without an issue. So sorry about your son and his family. Let's hope things go OK and they recovery quickly from whatever they have.

  11. Lucky Robin Says:
    1585260937

    Sorry to hear about your son and his family. And that you still can't find toilet paper. It really ought to be back on the shelves by now.

  12. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    I'm sorry your son and family are sick. {{{hugs}}}

  13. Tammy Says:
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    Oh my goodness, I can imagine the feeling of helplessness! I’m so sorry your son and his family are sick. I hope they all feel much better very soon!

  14. creditcardfree Says:
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    ((Hugs)) I pray your family is well very soon!

  15. mumof2 Says:
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    OMG I hope they get better real soon....I know what it is like to feel beside yourself but know that you can always call them and check on them and they would probably appreciate it...wish you all the best

  16. terri77 Says:
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    I hope they recover quickly.

  17. Dido Says:
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    Adding my prayers for your son and his family!

  18. My English Castle Says:
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    Oh CB, I just saw this. Prayers and all good thoughts. My heart goes out to you and yours

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